Tell Someone You Care. Buy a Book (without the “e”)
Let me first say that I am a Kindle owner and a Kindle lover. I love being able to get just about any book I want instantly, the convenience of being able to carry my entire eBook collection with me wherever I go, the size that fits so easily (and lightly!) into my purse…eBooks certainly have their place in my life. But this weekend I was also reminded of at least one major role of books that eBooks (at least at this point) can’t replace.
This weekend I was a guest at my friend’s baby shower. It was requested that instead of bringing cards with the gifts we bring a favorite children’s book and write a message inside the front cover. This is a trend I’ve seen a few other times over the last year (my mom’s cousin, a friend’s sister-in-law) and I think it’s adorable. I’ve never really been a fan of greeting cards and rarely bother with them. They usually just end up in the trash, at best in a drawer/box that never gets looked in again. But putting a message in a beloved book totally changes that. The message becomes part of many memories, instead of the one brief moment before you open your gift, and remains a part of the owners life far beyond that of an ordinary greeting card with a pre-packaged messaged.
My most-valued item in my own collection is a 1921 print of Little Women that my grandmother gave me on my 10th birthday. Inside, she wrote a short happy birthday message with the date under a similar message her grandmother wrote for her when she gave it to her on her birthday decades before. I now plan to give the same book to my granddaughter one day with a similar message of my own. That book represents the history and love of a family. Similarly, this weekend a friend of mine gave me Green Eggs and Ham as an early birthday present with a message inside wishing me a fun, adventurous future. Though that too came with a real card, I know the card will eventually disappear, but the book and its inscription will always stay with me and remind me of my friend and her thoughtfulness when I share the book with my children in the future.
eBooks are wonderful. They are fast and convenient and make life easier in a lot of ways. But physical books provide a human connection that eBooks can’t. We share old favorites with one another, books that inspire feelings and memories of our own and that we hope will provide similar experiences for those we care about. Through inscriptions, we can remind each other of how much we care and make a new set of memories in the process. None of this can be done with eBooks. Maybe it will be possible in the future (and I really hope it is if those who believe eBooks will kill physical books all together are right), but for now physical books fill an indispensable role in our lives and in our personal histories.